A Love That Lauds Our Lord

Membership Sunday

 

 

John 13:31-35 (ESV)
31 When he had gone out, Jesus said, “Now is the Son of Man glorified, and God is glorified in him. 32 If God is glorified in him, God will also glorify him in himself, and glorify him at once. 33 Little children, yet a little while I am with you. You will seek me, and just as I said to the Jews, so now I also say to you, ‘Where I am going you cannot come.’ 34 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. 35 By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

 

John 13:34-35 (NA27)
34 ντολν καινν δίδωμι μν, να γαπτε λλήλους, καθς γάπησα μς να κα μες γαπτε λλήλους. 35 ν τούτ γνώσονται πάντες τι μο μαθηταί στε, ἐὰν γάπην χητε ν λλήλοις.

 

His last words!

Our first words as members of this local body.

 

Context of the last supper.  Jesus departing.  Jesus serving .

 

That you love one another Just as I have loved you

 

John 15:12-14 (ESV)
12 “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that someone lays down his life for his friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command you.

 

The origin of our love.

We love because he first loved us.

Do you know His love?

Our ability to love related to our comprehension of His love.

This comprehension has two parts – for the disciples, for us.

 

Objective and subjective experience – “just as I have love you..”

 

Excursus on the validity and need for the Objective and Subjective – in light of postmodernism.

 

Importance of objective and subjective.

 One outside of us – verifiable, not relative, absolute, one our experience and interpretation of the objective. Objective is the anchor for the subjective.

A house boat anchored in a safe harbor.

Objective is the anchor, subjective is the weather.

Our experience of the love of God must be both.

 

Objective

 

They knew how Jesus loved them!

They had walked with him.

The calling of Andrew, Philip and Nathanael,

 

Jerusalem

Matthew 23:37 (ESV)
37 “O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the city that kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to it! How often would I have gathered your children together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you would not!

 

Healing and casting out demons.

Samaritan women.

Woman with bleeding

Zacheus

Most recently, the supper together.

Affection, intimacy, counsel

Washing their feet!

This was fresh in their minds.

Just as I have loved you!

Is it fresh in your mind?

 

Ultimately the cross

 

John 15:12-13 (ESV)
12 “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that someone lays down his life for his friends

 

Paul’s love for Israel.

Jesus bore it all in a moment of time.

Hell condensed into a horrible agonizing death!

 

Subjective

 

Received through faith.

There was a subjective side to it.

Still the same for us.

By faith experience His love.

By His Spirit! In us!   Not merely good feelings but subjective experience rooted in objective reality!

 

Romans 5:3-8 (ESV)
3 More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, 4 and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, 5 and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. 6 For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. 7 For one will scarcely die for a righteous person—though perhaps for a good person one would dare even to die— 8 but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

 

Romans 8:15-17 (ESV)
15 For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” 16 The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, 17 and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him.

 

 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another

 

A commandment.

Commanded to love.

How so?  Just as I have loved us!  He is the source.

Not just will but heart also – just as I’ve loved you.

How are we to love?

 

Biblical love – God’s love.

 

1 Corinthians 13 (ESV)
1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing. 4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known. 13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

 

 

Patient

       it can wait, wait for growth in an individual, wait for repentance, wait for maturity. Church too!

       Not demanding but waiting and loving, relationship already perfected

       Not –“when he learns to stop being so inconsiderate I will love him..

        

Kind

       considerate, gentle, good to others, thoughtful, proactive in blessing.

        

Not envy or boast

       wants what’s best for another, rejoices in their success and promotion.

 

Not arrogant

How do I view my opinions?  Do I ask questions first, share opinions later?  Assume my understanding incomplete first.

 

Not rude

       not asserting self first, not interrupting conversations!

Listening in conversations.  Not waiting to say what I want!

 

Does not insist on its own way

       flexible, willing to serve anothers agenda,

Not irritable

       why irritable, selfishness, gentle, patience, dealing with kids, loud noises in sanctuary etc.

 

Not resentful

       not holding any grudges nor bitterness, forgiving, releasing, loving.  O how we need this!

Landscape littered with resentment! 

 

Rejoices with the truth

Truth and love are tied together!  Love wants the truth to be front and center because truth results in more love! Do you hate confrontation?  Do you seek correction?  Do you seek transparency?  Love does!

 

Bears all things

 

Believes all things

 

Hopes all things

 

Endures all things

 

These have to do with dealing with the faults and quirks of others!  Do we put up with others?

Do we bear with them and accept them – even as we are accepted?  We are a stinky bunch and Jesus accepts us!  We must bear with others!

Do we believe the best or assume the worst?  Taking a quip or comment or incomplete statement in the worse way or bearing with and thinking the best until proven otherwise.  The justice system built on this!

Hope for the best, put up with abuse!

Endure even abuse by others for the sake of love!

 

To love at all is to be venerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin or your selfishness. But in that casket--safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable...The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers...of love is Hell. 

C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves, Harcourt, Brace & World, Inc., 1960, p.169.

 

1 Corinthians 13 (Message)
1 If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don’t love, I’m nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate. If I speak God’s Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, “Jump,” and it jumps, but I don’t love, I’m nothing. If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don’t love, I’ve gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love. Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. Love doesn’t strut, Doesn’t have a swelled head, Doesn’t force itself on others, Isn’t always “me first,” Doesn’t fly off the handle, Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, Doesn’t revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end. Love never dies. Inspired speech will be over some day; praying in tongues will end; understanding will reach its limit. We know only a portion of the truth, and what we say about God is always incomplete. But when the Complete arrives, our incompletes will be canceled. When I was an infant at my mother’s breast, I gurgled and cooed like any infant. When I grew up, I left those infant ways for good. We don’t yet see things clearly. We’re squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won’t be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We’ll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us! But for right now, until that completeness, we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation: Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly. And the best of the three is love.

Why?  What’s at stake here?

 

God’s glory!  Our witness, our bliss, our success.

 

By this all people will know that you are my disciples

 

 

What characterizes us> first impression? Doctrine?

 

Essential.  Like roots and branches of a tree.

The fruit and leaves are what people see first.

Roots aren’t necessary beautiful but fruit is!

Sound roots and sound tree leads to good fruit!

Measure of sound doctrine is in our fruit.

LOVE!!!!!!!

 

W/o fruit the tree resembles a thorn bush!  Bent and bare and empty and prickly!

 

Love covers over a multitude of sins.

Unity.

Jesus among us.

The most significant witnessing tool.

Show me a church where there is love, and I will show you a church that is a power in the community. In Chicago a few years ago a little boy attended a Sunday school I know of. When his parents moved to another part of the city the little fellow still attended the same Sunday school, although it meant a long, tiresome walk each way. A friend asked him why he went so far, and told him that there were plenty of others just as good nearer his home.

"They may be as good for others, but not for me," was his reply.

"Why not?" she asked.

"Because they love a fellow over there," he replied.

If only we could make the world believe that we loved them there would be fewer empty churches, and a smaller proportion of our population who never darken a church door. Let love replace duty in our church relations, and the world will soon be evangelized.

Moody's Anecdotes, pp. 71-72.

 

The overflow of love to the world too!

 

Conclusion

 

We stand out for his sake.

In the world,

In CG relationships,

On Sundays.

He gets the glory, we get the blessing!

 

34 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. 35 By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

 

KING OF GRACE, LET US LOVE ONE ANOTHER, AS CHRIST HAS LOVED US, THAT ALL MEN WHO COME IN CONTACT WITH US MAY KNOW WE ARE HIS DISCIPLES AND THEIR ATTENTION MIGHT BE DRAWN TO HIM!!